Re: Need some advice ....
FunkyMonkey wrote:
.... for those that has been in an accident with other vehicles and it wasn't your fault.
The cop gave all the responsibility to the other driver of the cage on my accident. Now this cage driver needs a lesson in watching for scooters, motorcycles and whatever else people ride these days.
And at 78 years old ... if he couldn't see me, he doesn't need to be driving for fear of hitting someone else on the road.
Since the other driver told the cop "I didn't see him" ... the cop looked me over, shook his head and told me "I don't see how anyone that drives a vehicle could miss seeing you OR your scoot in any type of incident.
Thanked me for being so standing out to other drivers. And walked away giving the other driver full responsbility for the incident.
SO... with that said ... if you have been in this type of situation, what is it that you did to the other driver in the court of law?
Give me some ideas, cause this person that didn't see me .... he is going to remember me from now own.
But what have otherpeople done to other cage drivers for your incidents...
Thanks from FM.
Ed
I am not out of rehab yet. Still working on learning to walk again.
Ed I'm sorry that you were hit by that guy and that you were hurt, but he made a mistake. Maybe a grave one at that but still a mistake. I presume he wasn't drinking or on drugs, he just didn't see you. I'm not defending him but have you ever made a mistake? Like a really dumb one? It's a rare man who can claim he's never done so.
Did you ever drive under the influence and not get into an accident? Man I know you're retired military and I remember how wild most of us were. Or how about speeding really fast but you managed to not get caught or get into an accident? Maybe a bit of stoplight Grands Prix? I'd bet the ranch all the members of this or any other forum would have to answer yes to both of those questions.
Asking for people's advice is one thing but what is it you really want to get out of this? I'd be willing to bet he'll keep an eye out for other riders/drivers better in the future just on the basis of this accident. So how much more do you want to see happen to him? Would you like him to go to jail? Or see him ruined financially?
If you don't know the answers to those there are going to be plenty of lawyers who'll step up to the plate on your behalf. Their's too I might add.
I'm 72 and I know for a fact I've been riding longer than most people you'll run into but at the same time I know I could make a mistake like he did. I hope to hell if it ever happens whoever is involved won't be killed or seriously injured, that would ruin the rest of my life. Either one of those would suffice as punishment for me. How about you?
I nearly forgot - yes I've been in accidents that were not my fault, hit by a truck on my bike, rear ended by a hit & run driver at a stop light in my pickup. Went for a ride in an ambulance, not much fun but neither of the guys saw me. Two other times I was rear ended, both times by drunks who took off when they were able to recover. They have to deal with it, not me.
My advice is this: Move on with your life and don't let this incident cost you any more than it already has. Vengeance is a two-sided sword my friend.
LL75