I can testify to this. In the winter, I spend my holidays in Thailand where I do some scootering. My observations are along the same lines. There's practically no hostility or anger shown under any circumstances. Very few traffic lights or signs. Most people ignore sign posts anyway, even in Europe.
I think you might like the ideas of
Hans Monderman, a now deceased Dutch traffic designer, who introduced the concept of
shared space in urban communities. One of his approaches is to do away with traffic control. Once this is achieved, the people start taking responsibility themselves and a more considerate culture emerges.
In Southeast Asia, the people and road users are unknowingly using the very same concept of shared space in their everyday commuting. We as Europeans have lost that sensibility and human interaction in traffic. Now it can be reclaimed if one sticks to Monderman's principles.
More on the subject:
http://www.wilsonquarterly.com/essays/traffic-guruQuote:
Traffic signs, for Monderman, were an invitation to stop thinking, to stop acting on one's own volition. In streets designed to safely handle the actions of the riskiest participants, everyone slips into riskier behavior. As he put it to me, "There are so many things that can be forbidden. The stranger thing is that we believe everything that isn't forbidden is allowed."
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/1533248/Is-this-the-end-of-the-road-for-traffic-lights.htmlQuote:
"It works well because it is dangerous, which is exactly what we want. But it shifts the emphasis away from the Government taking the risk, to the driver being responsible for his or her own risk.
"We only want traffic lights where they are useful and I haven't found anywhere where they are useful yet."
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/motoring/road-safety/2743688/Rip-them-out.htmlQuote:
In Drachten in Holland, "shared space" pioneer Hans Monderman removed traffic lights and signs. Streets and pavements were levelled and cobbled, street activity encouraged. Accidents, congestion and journey times fell, and now road-users smile. Shared space relies on interaction and drivers behaving well - which, in the absence of controls, they do. Given responsibility, they exercise meaningful self-control. Monderman walks into the road without looking, knowing that drivers, undistracted by lights, are watching the road.
http://www.theguardian.com/news/2008/feb/02/mainsection.obituariesQuote:
...Monderman pioneered an approach that respected the driver's common sense and intelligence instead of reliance on signs, road markings, traffic signals and physical barriers. He recognised that increasing control and regulation by the state reduced individual and collective responsibility, and he initiated a fresh understanding of the relationship between streets, traffic and civility.
http://www.nytimes.com/2005/01/22/international/europe/22monderman.html?_r=0Quote:
'Who has the right of way? I don't care,' said Hans Monderman, a traffic engineer. 'People here have to find their own way, negotiate for themselves, use their own brains.'
...In his view, it is only when the road is made more dangerous, when drivers stop looking at signs and start looking at other people, that driving becomes safer.
"All those signs are saying to cars, 'This is your space, and we have organized your behavior so that as long as you behave this way, nothing can happen to you,' " Mr. Monderman said. "That is the wrong story."
Hans Monderman:
It now seems that many of Monderman's ideas live on and his theories are steadily gaining more support.
http://www.dw.de/european-towns-remove-traffic-signs-to-make-streets-safer/a-2143663-1Quote:
A number of European cities have begun to successfully implement the system developed by Monderman, which reportedly has decreased congestion and reduced accidents, according to police statistics.
[...] The removal of road signs across Germany has been supported by the German transport ministry, where officials argue that the amount of signs is confusing drivers.
"Many road signs are only put up so that we are covered for insurance purposes and not necessarily because they provide the driver with useful information, '' said Jörg Hennerkes from the ministry.