When my wife and I were 1st time parents, we lived in the US, and like many young couples, had to juggle work and parenthood. This was made easier by a wonderful middle aged widow who lived nearby who ran a small day care out of her home.
She only took 4 or 5 kids at a time, and our daughter got her last open slot to replace another child who had 'graduated' to nursery school.
Another couple from our neighborhood also left their daughter with this woman, and the two became good friends (or as close as toddlers can get).
Fast forward a bunch of years and we now live in Israel. It turns out that the other little girl's family also moved to Israel (a few years before we did).
Our daughter is now serving as a drill instructor at a very special basic training base. Without going into too much detail, suffice it to say that this special basic training base/course was designed by the army to give young men from 'troubled' backgrounds (meaning anything from criminal offenses, to broken families to severe learning and/or discipline issues, etc.), who by most standards were deemed completely unsuited for military life, a last chance to rejoin society on an equal footing.
All of the drill instructors at this special base are specially trained, hand-picked female soldiers who not only are expected to be stronger,faster, and better than their trainees at every task... but are also required to be hard as nails and as patient as saints.
Unlike most basic training courses, the drill instructors at this base are not allowed to mold their charges through yelling or intimidation. Rather, they take these young men, many of whom have never experienced discipline or success in any form in their lives... and through consistency and sheer force of will, show them how to succeed and become disciplined soldiers.
Some truly wonderful success stories come out of this base.
But the most interesting story for us is that one of the other drill instructors serving with my daughter is this other little girl who was her friend in daycare all those years ago.
Here are the before and after shots: