genie wrote:
It sounds to me like this is really stressing you out a lot. Have you read back through the posts in this thread, particularly those from other London riders? Trying to keep people from moving your small, light, narrow scooter is, I'm afraid, a losing battle. You're parking in a really crowded part of London where bike space is at an absolute premium. It wouldn't surprise me if someone had let the air out of your tyres if they perceived that you've been consistently parking inconsiderately. Don't think for a second that I condone that kind of stupid behaviour, but there are some angry people out there.
Bikes come and go in and out of these bays on a regular basis. A space that you noted and recorded as empty five minutes ago may change hands two or three times over the next fifteen minutes.
If it bothers you as much as it seems to then the only advice that I can offer is to move to a less crowded bay.
Yup.
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
I live in a small town in a rural state, so the problem you face is quite different from anything I face, but, still...
...people here are almost too friendly, so drivers have a habit of stopping in the middle of the road so that pedestrians can cross the street, even when there is no crosswalk. This is not the law -- in fact, it perhaps violates the law -- but it is the norm.
My wife, who is from a large Canadian city, found this hard to accept, as it violates her Canadian code of ethics, which means she's a lot like a Brit, which is that the law is the law, and she walks a lot (a lot!), so that frequently she would find herself standing on the corner with cars stopped for her to cross, and she'd wave them on to keep driving, and they'd wave for her to walk, and she'd wave for them to keep driving, and they'd honk and wave, and she'd get pissed and wave in a grumpy manner, and they'd tell her to go f--k herself, and she'd come home and cry.
I pointed out that there were only two solutions: stop walking or adapt to the norm. The third option, the one she was waiting for, that she would single handedly substitute the law for the norm, didn't really exist, not in this plane of reality, at least.
Your problem will go away the minute you stop worrying about it.
Which, I know, is more easily said than done, but it is still quite doable.