well - I have lots to say here.
Feel like I tried it all.
1. Thinner spacer is fine - if... the cogs line up, AND, you replace them often.
2. On that replace them often thing... the new gen clutches are bigger and heavier and they bend the spacer. CAREFUL. they can impeded on your bearing. thicker one transfers load better.
3. I bought one of the fancy clutch covers that is already ground back - nicely - and evenly - on a lathe - for lots of $$$. but that same cover has to transfer load - so thinning it to tinfoil may allow it to fit - but as Whodat notes - makes it flimsy.
3. Due to #1, #2, #3 above - best solution in MY book is a thick spacer and a stock cover. Whodat provided me a homemade spacer out of the gate that got me acclimated.
Eventually just plonked down for thicker one - that had its own seal.
With a proper spacer - you get all the strength to carry the load - and the space you need not to have interference like you are experiencing. No compromise.
https://www.sip-scootershop.com/en/product/spacer-sip-cnc-clutch-cover_17650000?q=clutch%20cover%20spacer
This has worked nicely for me and been robust.