So I know this is not a marriage counseling but it is not all to me. There's her, right?
3 years ago I got her a Harley because she wanted a harley lol. We're recently-ish married and she didn't really know me riding motorcycles... Let's say that I had hit a quiet period in my life. So fine I bought the harley (small engine 883) and I took her for a spin and she was in heaven discovering another side of me. Her interest in motorcycles shot through the roof until I started teaching her to ride - dropping the big boy on the ground is no fun lol. I upgraded the clutch to make it smoother, removed the slack on the throttle because she did not like how it would engage "at once" but it didn't help... On the positive side she enjoyed shopping for multiple outfits, helmet, glasses leather jackets, vests padded pants lol
She decided that I wasn't a good teacher... I mean that she wanted to take a proper class. So went to the local dealership which offered a really good class on lowered, "castrated" bikes with safety bars. She felt in love with the idea ,but still wanted me to teach her some more first before taking the class. That was spring 2022.
So when I came across this
1980 Bajaj Barnfind and started riding it and signing up with the Chicago Vespa club she then decided that she wants a scooter so we can ride together. I get it, the Harley is a bit big for her. But IMO,
and please correct me if I'm wrong, if you don't have the passion and you're not a seasoned rider by late 30s, chances are that you won't get into riding motorcycles, not even a scooter.
I am not being a chauvinist here, but for me, I only need the bike under me and the road; don't care about my outfit, or even a helmet (I know, long discussion) and I ride. Don't need a riding buddy, no plans, no destination. I think that applies to most male riders and I'm yet to see a female rider riding solo for fun, tho I know, they are out there