DiBiasio wrote:
It's my understanding that the cost of things is MEANT to increase over time, just at a more gradual pace. Once costs go up they never really come back down. Consider rent. DEflation is supposed to be an indicator of larger economic troubles that wind up resulting in labor market issues. The main problem is not that prices are going up, or that jobs are scarce, it's that wages across the lower and middle-class spectrum have not gone up enough to compensate. All the $ gets to the top percentile and more significantly, it just STAYS there. These are the same wealth distribution issues we had in the US in 1929. Need I say more?
Preach. As soon as "they" know they can charge an amount for a service/item/etc., they are not going back. It's made me more of a recluse as far as going out to a place that has pool tables to have fun. After splitting some wings, 6 beers or so, and whatever makes my companion happy, I'm in over $100. Before tip. I'm all-in on the European model of baking the tip in the price of the item. That won't happen in the U.S., because companies lobby for it not to happen. They like minimum wage people busting their asses for tips that THEY have to pay a heavy tax hit on if declared. And things get shady with servers, hostesses, bar keeps...gotta tip them out, right?
This isn't a brag. I worked in a Charlotte nightclub as a barback (not bareback you pervs), and we all had a hustle. Worked it out with certain bartenders. I'd bring a case over the allotted, and I would put them in a bucket on ice at the end, behind the bar. She kept the $5 a beer(this was '96ish) and gave me $2. That's almost $50 a case. Plus I took out a bottle of Crown and Courvoisier every night. So, after working Friday and Saturday night for 5 hrs each night, I would bank $300 in tips and $200 straight pay. Each night. $500 in your pocket at 3am when we got off in downtown Charotte was not a good mix. Met some great people, though. Famous cats for the area. Nice sex workers. I always talked with anyone I played around with on those nights. Get their story, you know? 50% of the time I didn't even have sex, and just paid them to lay their head on my shoulder and watch TV and get high. Share some time. Relax. Most girls then didn't have pimps, but when they did they were usually squirrely guys or huffy women. It always pissed them off when I took my "date" to the closest pancake house and chilled the next morning. Bought a nice chicken sammy plate to go for them always.
That was just a small sample size of stuff I went through when I was puffing on that stem. The sunrise on those mornings either made me cry in joy or cry in pain. Either way, I cried.
And now, being 51, I'm losing people. My buddies that rolled with me during that time are dead. No prison. Just dead. Not bad people, just addicts. Yet, I am still here. Survivor guilt? Nope. I just miss them. It could have been so much better. All those times acting like idiots on a boat and buying Wendy's triple cheeseburgers on the way to the house. We had it all in our hands.
I truly hate that I emoted like this. If just 1 person gets something from this, I will be vindicated. Not for my actions, but for this diatribe.