In the new version of the joints (they fit both old and new MP3s), the total width of the washers must always be 3mm. If you use thicker washers, the joint won't have the required play to rotate in the fork after tightening the nut. And it must, otherwise it will be a disaster. It will be difficult to move and the joints will wear out very quickly.
If you want to use more washers for an even greater adjustment range, you need to use a lathe to reduce the width, for example, by 0.5mm. Then you can use a total width of 3.5mm of the adjustment shims instead of 3.0mm.
However, I wouldn't go beyond the adjustment range of the new joints... because if you still can't get the wheels parallel, it means: you have play in the suspension, hence the poor results, or you simply have a warped suspension
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The wheels should be parallel to each other. I talk about this in my video. You can go to regular YouTube and turn on the subtitles and enable the translation into, for example, English.
You can no longer correct the toe-in... because toe-in is always closely related to the wheel's camber. Furthermore, if something is bent, even if you set the wheels parallel to the straight-ahead position, when you turn right or left, they will no longer be parallel, and the wheels will wobble.